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how the eff do you get over an ex

odd but i was with a girl for a year and ahalf and she broke it off with me last summer when she went off to college, and i have a problem letting go.
i dont stop thinking about her.....im just focked up in the head,
any suggestions fellas?

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Look for another girl. Maybe it will turn out better for ya. There's plenty of fish in the sea so try your hardest to get over her and catch the right fish for you lol

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Go out on dates, and have fun. It's a little silly to come to this web site and ask for relationship advice, when most of the people here don't have a clue anyways.

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thats the thing, i havent gone on any dates, no girls wanna go out, no girls around here like me.

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marc, flash the green and they will flock (but dont spend squat on them). man up and strike up a conversation with a hunny at the mall or wherever you frequent to. you are young and have plenty of time to find a keeper.

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Hey i feel ya buddy, i went out with this Girl for 8 months and we broke up about 6 months ago. I still think about her all the time too. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. But now i have to move on, there are other women that will make me happy just as she did. Call up your bro's, get geared up and put your game face on. Go have fun cause your still young. I know it hurts, but you'll soon find the right girl. Just hang in there.

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I'm gonna agree with Joel on this one... a male-dominated gearhead website probably isnt the best place to look for this sort of advice.

I dont know if theres too much I can tell you. Just realize that you gotta move on, because its over. All you're doing now is wasting time. Look for happiness in other places besides women.

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Time. Wisdom comes with the passing of time, age and experiance. In time, you'll realize that she will be on your mind from time to time. Time will tell how you choose to remember her. On those occasians, try to remember the good times. The time we have in life is too short, so take the time now to move on and enjoy the rest of your life. I'm sure she has.
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Is it me or have there been a good amount of these types of threads lately? Not just getting over a girlfriend, but just dealing with girlfriends in general?


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Time. Wisdom comes with the passing of time, age and experiance. In time, you'll realize that she will be on your mind from time to time. Time will tell how you choose to remember her. On those occasians, try to remember the good times. The time we have in life is too short, so take the time now to move on and enjoy the rest of your life. I'm sure she has.
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yeah, thanks all, it just kinda sucks, just wanted some opinions.
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Never EVER listen to country music.....that makes everything worse
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Never EVER listen to country music.....that makes everything worse
I don't know bout that. I've heard some that made me feel better. Dierks Bentley's "How am I doin'" made me feel better!

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ok, I'll give you that one, there are a couple, but there are quite a few more that will hurt if you are in the right place
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I don't know bout that. I've heard some that made me feel better. Dierks Bentley's "How am I doin'" made me feel better!
And when done with that Dierks Bentley, get some advice from another Dierks Bentley. "Lot Of Leaving Left To Do" Love this line. "And we could talk about forever for a day or two"

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I broke up with my chick of 3 years about a little over a month ago, screwed 2 really gorgeous girls... it was cool for the time being.. but then the memories and such come back. Time Heals ALL wounds... Alchohol isn't a solution, just a temporary bandaid for making ugly women look good, which HELPS in getting laid. Yeah, I've had too much to drink tonight.

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Hey I have been there. I was with a girl for a year and a half, a year of it was a little long distance. Once I moved up here to go to school, she let me go. For something like the first 3 months I was depressed, let my grades slide, and did everything short of begging her to come back to me. The best part, I spent more time with my friends. These were the guys that I had just met when I moved, but they got me through it. Now, because of one of them, I am with someone that I cannot stand to be without. She is perfect, in everyway (into sports, plays X-box, likes things that I like...other than my car).
Like it was said. There is more than just that one girl. But this is a good place to ask, many helped me get through it. But friends are the best.

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alan jackson-remember when, the worst song to hear ever after a break up
and james, come on i cant be that bad lol

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Ive been in your shoes before.. I know how bad it can suck. The best advice I can give you is to try and go out and have fun, I know its like the last thing u want to do but it really does help. Ive come to the realization that everything in life is leading you somewhere. No matter what happens, its for a reason. There is always some one else out there its just a matter of when you will find them. But the trick is to not go looking for love, let it come to you. And when it finally does it will be the best thing ever. Keep your head up, and just stay busy, pick up a new hobby, start weight lifting, anything man! Just give it time

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